
2020 was…. well, a year many want to forget.
The reality is that 2021 will likely be equally challenging, perhaps in different ways.
So, what can any of us do to thrive in despite all these challenges?
- Covid-19 virus
- Joblessness
- Quarantine Chaos
- Economic challenges
- Diversity / Equity
- Political dynamics
- Remote School
- Remote Work
- Media and information overload
Traditionally we make ‘New Year Resolutions’.
Lose weight, Exercise, Quit a bad habit…
Statistically, only about 7% of people stick with their resolutions!
With “2020 hindsight” (yeah, that joke is already old!)
let’s try a different approach: a 30-60-90 outlook.
Here’s how:
- PARTNER with someone or form a small group.
This is critical – you’ll all keep each other honest, just by sharing socially! - MONTH 1: Individually or together, spend just 30-60 minutes to outline what you want to focus on in three buckets: one for each of the next 3 months, here’s an example:

- ONGOING: Share and discuss your list with others openly. The more you share the more committed you will naturally be.
- MONTHLY: Try to formally ‘touch base’ with your partner/group. Share status, feedback and advice. Update for the next 30-60-90.
- NEW YEAR: Celebrate successes & lessons learned. Find ways to refresh your focus!
DON’T overthink this.
DON’T make it a ‘to do list’. It’s a forward-thinking focus list.
DON’T think of it as an additional thing to do.
DON’T stress when you don’t check all the boxes. Just reevaluate and update the list.
DO include personal and professional.
DO challenge yourself.
DO feel proud when you check off a box!
DO encourage each other!
AND, even try to make it FUN!
NOTE: This can be done with kids, coworkers, friends, even parents. It can be done face to face, on social media (start a private Facebook or LinkedIn group), and even virtually with Zoom or Teams (or whatever tool you’re comfortable with)!
